Hey Andy,
Man, you know the old saying "Great minds think alike" That doesn't apply here since I am nowhere near your thought process nor patience with cars today.
I did an internet search on the codes to help me sort out other options, not much help. But one I did find that has me troubled is a bad PCM - to read that this can happen brings me to the next question - "How far do we go with this?" Because by observation - you seem to have changed the correct solenoids - there are only two, towards the Alternator (Left side) while the sensors are located on the Transmission (Right) side by the Coil pack
Just FYI I have yet to replace those solenoids. They are on order and opted for the (close your eyes I am about to say a bad word) Doreman brand, and the warranty replacement Motorcraft plug wires are coming from RockAuto. Since I had to wait for those wires I figured I would just get the Solenoids there as well.
Re: TDC
I have been rejecting the thought that this could be a timing belt issue. When all of this started (hopefully I can find this video), I posted a video to a friend of mine where there was this horrifying noise coming from the front of the engine like a bad alternator pully or similar, he immediately pointed to a bad timing-belt tensioner and said the belt must have jumped a gear. I thought the noise was more of a loose spark plug, which I did find on the troubled #3 cylinder (the one with the DTC misfire cylinder #3).
As much as I hate to say this it looks like this is becoming more the case. As I think back and look at all the posts here, with my friend on FB Messenger, and the shop that eventually replaced the coil pack, It started to look like this was more of a sensor issue and put the timing belt further in the back of my mind.
Those P0365 and P0369 codes that refuse to go away are making me doubt anything "normal" is happening here.
Wouldn't a timing belt issue be throwing all kinds of codes? I have not gotten a Crank Position Sensor code, the misfires have stopped, and that noise was gone when she finally took her little "vacation".
Don't forget I have all those emissions real-time test results: " test incomplete or dependant test failed" but never did it tell me which freaking dependent tests have been failing.
Am I on an episode of "The Twilight Zone"? Seriously, I can not be the only soul on this planet with this level of FUBAR.
THE ONLY THING THAT MAKES SENSE TO ME IS THE TORN-OFF SIDE MIRROR CAUSED ALL THIS.
So once again I have talked myself out of a direct timing issue. Do you agree? Is this really worth the teardown? I am not afraid of doing any work but the last engine I worked on was a 1973 VW Beatle. Hell, back then I could lift that engine out by myself.
I have never even touched a DOHC before. But if you stay with me through this I would love to learn after all I did replace all the damage caused by a semi-trailer backing into me and never did bodywork in my life. (see pics)
anyway,
thanks again for the reply.